Premature Ejaculation Hypnotherapy

premature ejaculation nottinghamPremature Ejaculation Hypnosis Nottingham

Premature ejaculation is much more common than most men think with the vast majority experiencing the issue at some point in their life. In most cases the problem will only happen for a short period of time and then disappear but for some individuals the condition can blight their lives. The worry about the inability to perform creates a cycle of negative thinking which in turn leads to anxiety increasing the chances of the incident happening again. The more the anxiety increases the more sex becomes a real worry leading to performance anxiety. Our Premature Ejaculation Hypnotherapy in Nottingham is designed to help reduce the cycle of negative thoughts so that the problem is brought under control.*

Tel: 01636 650 521

What Exactly is Premature Ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation is a condition that occurs when a man experiences an early ejaculation or orgasm during sexual activity. Premature ejaculation may happen before penetration or a minute or two into the sexual act. Often minimal stimulation may have occurred at the point of orgasm.

This early ejaculation can leave both parties feeling unsatisfied and if it happens regularly leads to a less-than-fulfilling sex life.

Men may feel a certain amount of pressure and a sense of failure if the problem happens regularly. These negative thought patterns reduce self-esteem and create anxiety which makes the problem worse.

Why do Men Experience Premature Ejaculation?

There are multiple reasons why a man may experience premature ejaculation problems. There are certain medical conditions that can cause the problem including hormone problems or infections of the prostate however for the vast majority of men the problem is psychological.

Each person we see for premature ejaculation hypnosis may have their own unique reason for experiencing sexual problems which is why our sessions are tailored to your specific problems but here are some of the most common reasons for the problem.

Stress and PE

Too much stress can lead to problems in the bedroom as well as create many other problems in your life. When we are stressed it can be difficult to get enough sleep, we become irritable and on edge and are unable to relax.

In order for people to have a satisfying sex life they need to feel relaxed and at ease in bed but stress can stop you from enjoying sex because it is impossible to relax sufficiently. Premature ejaculation hypnosis can help by teaching you to switch off and can help you to feel totally relaxed again.

Shame

Your upbringing and attitudes in your family can also impact your sex life in adulthood. If you were taught that sex was shameful or something to be thought of as dirty that can stop you from being able to enjoy sex later on in life.

Early sexual experiences can also have a devastating impact on your ego. It is not unusual for people’s first experience with sex to not go as well as planned. This can make you doubt yourself and your abilities when in fact what you have gone through was perfectly normal.

Anxiety and Early Ejaculation

Anxiety plays a large part in many of the issues with PE that we see in men. Either they have underlying anxiety which makes them hypervigilant and stops them from relaxing in the bedroom or a few problems with temporary PE create worry and then that grows the next time they have sex.

Premature ejaculation hypnosis is great for helping manage this mind-and-body connection. We know that by reducing anxiety and teaching our clients relaxation techniques we can help to stop premature ejaculation from ruining your sexual performance.

Relationships and Sexual Problems

Your relationship is also important when it comes to a satisfying sex life. If something isn’t right then your mind has a way of interfering with what happens physically during sex.

As an example, if you are no longer attracted to your partner is it any wonder that you might want to get the sexual act over and done with as quickly as possible?

Comparisons and Porn

The internet and associated social media apps have created an environment where people compare themselves to others. This can create pressure to meet these ideals which are often filtered. When we feel as if we are lacking this can create anxiety.

Porn also sets up an expectation that your sex life should be amazing and live up to the choreographed and filtered images that you see on screen but of course, life isn’t ever going to be the same. Getting our clients to learn to be realistic and understand that they are perfectly normal forms part of our work.

Past Abuse

If you have suffered past sexual abuse this can also be anxiety-provoking and cause problems with your sex life.  Many people are unaware that what may have happened to them as a child or teenagers can still have a significant impact on them years later.

Therapy for premature ejaculation can help you talk about any experiences you have in a safe environment.

Trying For a Baby

If you have been trying for a baby with your partner this can also put you under pressure and make sex feel more like a chore than something to be enjoyed.

Learning to manage expectations and getting both parties to relax and enjoy their time in bed instead of focusing on baby-making can help with PE issues.

Lack of Confidence and Premature Ejaculation

A significant number of our clients with PE have issues with confidence in the bedroom and worry about being a failure or not living up to expectations. Many make assumptions about what their partner is thinking of them and those negative thoughts obviously create problems.

A lack of confidence can be linked with social anxiety disorder which is a fear of being judged or embarrassing yourself in front of others. This is a problem that can be helped with hypnotherapy.

Conditioning

Finally, we shouldn’t forget conditioning as this plays a part in premature ejaculation for some people. Put simply if you have conditioned yourself to orgasm quickly then it can be difficult to slow things when you are with your partner.

Hypnosis can help to reverse conditioning and help you use relaxation techniques so that you are able to slow your lovemaking down.

Tel: 01636 650 521

Does Hypnosis Work for Premature Ejaculation?

Hypnosis is a great tool to help premature ejaculation because it can help with the psychological reasons for any problems with your sexual performance as well as help with anxiety, stress, and confidence. Hypnosis uses positive visualisation and suggestion as well as hypnotic rehearsal to make you feel more comfortable with your partner. Plus it is a powerful tool to help change the unhelpful thought patterns contained in your unconscious mind.

We understand that premature ejaculation can give men feelings of anxiety, and worry and lead to embarrassment about their bedroom performance. All of these worries eventually sap a person’s confidence and that, of course, can have a knock-on effect on areas other than relationships. Our Premature Ejaculation Hypnotherapy helps to work with you to find the root cause of the problem so that you can start to control any anxiety or worry.*

Online Premature Ejaculation Therapy

At Balance Hypnotherapy we have created a successful therapy program to help with premature ejaculation and the associated underlying causes. Our program helps to not only deal with the presenting problem but also to address some of the underlying causes that could be causing an issue with your sex life. This program takes place online via Zoom, Skype, or Facetime.

During our PE sessions, we use a combination of hypnosis, coaching, therapy, NLP, and sexual healing techniques to help our clients. Our program lasts for four sessions which can help you to enjoy sex again.

Our first session involves taking an assessment of what may be happening and involves teaching you how to get into a hypnotic trance to help you relax deeply. Our relaxation techniques are designed to lower stress and anxiety to help your mind and body to be calmer and feel more in control.

Subsequent sessions involve work to address what may be happening in your unconscious mind. This involves work to help you understand the root causes of your problem so that premature ejaculation treatment can be aimed at the exact problem.

When the root cause of the problem is understood we can use therapy to help alter thoughts and feelings about the issue. We can also use coaching techniques to build confidence and train your body to do things differently.*

Self Hypnosis for Premature Ejaculation

We even give all our clients a free Stop Premature Ejaculation Audio which they can listen to in the comfort of their own homes for use between our sessions. This helps our clients to practice anxiety and stress reduction at home and helps with positive suggestions. This self-hypnosis audio also trains your mind to enter hypnosis more quickly making it easier for us to find the root cause of the problem.*

If you would like to try and use self-hypnosis at home you can purchase our Help Male Performance Anxiety Audio from our online shop. Make sure you listen repeatedly to the audio in order to help calm your mind. We recommend it should be listened to daily for a period of at least 28 days. It should never be used when you are driving or in a situation where you need to be alert.

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Booking Your Stop Premature Ejaculation Treatment Program

If you would like more information about our premature ejaculation hypnotherapy in Nottingham or are interested in online sessions then you can arrange to call us today.

Tel: 01636 650 521

* Please note this is a form of therapy and we are unable to guarantee results which may vary from person to person

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